The RL staff was so sweet to surprise me with a whole page in the June issue (my swan song). I was touched to read what everyone had to say, and because of the madness and chaos of the move, I wasn’t even able to give everyone a proper goodbye. So consider this my proper goodbye!

My first ever staff photo with Real Living
Five years ago, I was nearing the tail-end of my stint at a professional services firm, and was about to make the jump back into publishing. My co-workers and I were sitting around a table during lunch, and someone asked what our top three dream jobs were. My first answer was, “Managing editor of Real Living.” It was a job I really wanted because I believed it played to my strengths–time management, organizational skills, people skills, with a bit of creativity. And it was a magazine I wanted to join because it was truly something I was interested in.
It was tough at first because, in magazines, people aren’t at their desks all day. The staff is constantly out, sourcing, doing oculars, pulling out, shooting, so save for turnovers (when we have to close an issue) it’s rare that we’re all in the same place at the same time. So I had to eat by myself sometimes, work quietly at my desk. But over time, through stressful deadlines and shoots where everything seemed to go wrong, I grew close to the other people behind RL, some of the best people you could ever meet.

I think Carl was bored the day he made this mock cover! I seriously wanted to print it out and frame it!
Rach, our editor, once joked that she thought she could retire and leave me as RL editor in chief. But I honestly never thought I could fill her shoes. She has this knowledge and understanding of design that I can’t possibly match. I feel that RL is truly a design authority because she’s at the helm.
Gwyn, with his quick wit, can instantly come up with zingers. I can’t count how many times his one-liners made me guffaw. My fondest memory of Gwyn is of spending a few days in Sumilon, Cebu with him and having a taste of the dreaded interesting torta.
Coni, oh Coni. How I love this girl. There can only be one Coni Tejada, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. I once told her that she was my sunshine at the office, and without blinking an eye, she answered, “I think I’m your rainbow. Kailangan may ulan muna!” My very first RL shoot was with Gwyn and Coni. We had to shoot a chair story in a bunch of locations in one afternoon. Tall order, and everyone was stressed out. There we were, standing in a street corner in Malate for an hour, waiting for our driver who had gotten hopelessly lost in the streets of Manila. We were all feeling pretty cranky by then. Things weren’t going as planned, and one of us, in exasperation, blurted out, “Kulang na lang umulan!” And right on cue, there was thunder. And rain followed soon after. We felt so defeated then, but looking back, it’s one of my favorite RL memories!
Kath–I am so happy that she’s back! Whenever Rach would ask me who I wanted to train as managing editor, I would answer “Kath” without skipping a beat. She is one of the most reliable people I know, and she cracks me up sometimes even when she doesn’t mean to be funny. And she always patiently listens and feigns interest whenever I have stories about my butterball niece. (Kath, I’m sorry you’ve had to endure that. Haha)
Arlene, our art director, makes such lovely, lovely illustrations (to go with her lovely personality!). Some of my most favorite RL covers are by Arlene! It’s always nice hearing her talk about her plans and her dreams, and I am touched that she shares these with me and confides in me.
Katherine aka Kaye, so efficient! She would just hear me discussing a shoot over the phone, and next thing I know, I have a vehicle prepared for the shoot already! She always does her work with a bedimpled smile on her face, which is why she’s such a heartthrob at the office.;) And we have a shared passion for Ultimate!
Hannah–I didn’t get to know Hannah much, but she seems like a joy to work with. She always greets me with a cheery “Hi Miss Tish!” I’m glad that I only moved a few desks down because I still get to see her and my other girls.
I’m very bad at goodbyes–I always end up being a bawling mess. I’m kind of thankful that the transition period was such a busy time, because it kept me from thinking about how much I was going to miss RL and my RL family. Because even though they’re still around and I see them all the time (and even though I am happy where I am) it’s not the same. I miss them. Every single day.